The moment you decide to love your spouse measurelessly, you have sent out a strong warning to the intruders to keep off. – Bamigboye Olurotimi

The moment you decide to love your spouse measurelessly, you have sent out a strong warning to the intruders to keep off. – Bamigboye Olurotimi

The moment you decide to love your spouse measurelessly, you have sent out a strong warning to the intruders to keep off. – Bamigboye Olurotimi

The moment you decide to love your spouse measurelessly, you have sent out a strong warning to the intruders to keep off. – Bamigboye Olurotimi

Many people are forgetting the concepts of life sometimes. Humanity has become incredibly impatient and I am not one bit surprised to be honest. (I myself is one to be blamed). All the technology, services, internet and so on is forcing us to have all our desires materialized almost instantly. So, when it comes to things that have the most value in life, we put the same kind of pressure and expectations on it; love, relationships, family, quality of life and so on and so on. How many of us are still aware of the fact, that the Universe doesn’t give us what we want, but instead what we need? And yes, sometimes what we want is what we need. However, we need to prove we are worthy of that something we desire. Believing in oneself to be worthy is one thing, but proving it is another matter all together and people don’t wanna make that effort. One has to work at things we wish to have; love, relationships, certain lifestyle. We can’t just sit and make no effort. We need to learn to adjust, compromise, because ultimately it is that what makes us appreciate it more when we do achieve it. We care for that achievement better and we don’t let anything bad happen to it, because we have put all the love into make it happen for ourselves. It is not called for nothing: Easy comes, easy goes. It is the challenges we need to step up to and own up to them. Through those we learn about ourselves, for everything and everyone we meet in our life is our mirror image. That is not easy for people to accept and it’s sometimes hard, but believe me, it is true whether one likes it or not. Expression is the key in our life. If we don’t express ourselves properly, errors could start occuring and the flow becomes stagnant. Finding that fine line between expression and compromise is not easy at all. I still believe that love is the most important value in life, always have. ☆ – Ester Young

Many people are forgetting the concepts of life sometimes.
Humanity has become incredibly impatient and I am not one bit surprised to be honest. (I myself is one to be blamed). All the technology, services, internet and so on is forcing us to have all our desires materialized almost instantly. So, when it comes to things that have the most value in life, we put the same kind of pressure and expectations on it; love, relationships, family, quality of life and so on and so on. How many of us are still aware of the fact, that the Universe doesn’t give us what we want, but instead what we need? And yes, sometimes what we want is what we need. However, we need to prove we are worthy of that something we desire. Believing in oneself to be worthy is one thing, but proving it is another matter all together and people don’t wanna make that effort.
One has to work at things we wish to have; love, relationships, certain lifestyle.
We can’t just sit and make no effort. We need to learn to adjust, compromise, because ultimately it is that what makes us appreciate it more when we do achieve it. We care for that achievement better and we don’t let anything bad happen to it, because we have put all the love into make it happen for ourselves.
It is not called for nothing: Easy comes, easy goes. It is the challenges we need to step up to and own up to them. Through those we learn about ourselves, for everything and everyone we meet in our life is our mirror image. That is not easy for people to accept and it’s sometimes hard, but believe me, it is true whether one likes it or not. Expression is the key in our life. If we don’t express ourselves properly, errors could start occuring and the flow becomes stagnant.
Finding that fine line between expression and compromise is not easy at all.
I still believe that love is the most important value in life, always have. ☆ – Ester Young